During my freshman year of college, I met two amazing guys who were best friends from high school. I started dating one of them, and the other became one of my closest friends. When the one broke up with me, I was incredibly hurt, and really needed to talk to someone. So I sent his best friend this long message on facebook telling him that I wanted to talk to him, but would understand if he didn't want to get in the middle of it. When he got home that night, he saw that I had left a message, but didn't read it. He simply called and asked if I wanted to talk.